My 'thing' is touch
I have 20 years of experience and qualifications in giving, receiving, and teaching touch in a wide range of massage and sensual modalities. For me, touch, massage and self pleasure are amazingly accessible tools that gift us with pleasure and delight. Touch is grounding and opens us to feeling deeply connected through experiencing real body awareness and presence.
Eternal learning through your body
It's never too late to learn! An investment in your sexual education can not only revive your relationships — both with yourself and with others — but also support you with an empowering and life affirming gift of self discovery.
Listening to your body
The physical act of verbalising and offloading thoughts can be incredibly powerful. I am not a talking therapist. However, I can hold a safe neutral space where I listen and gently guide you to help you to let go of your internal stories and tune into where your body might be holding onto internal dialogue. This is done by encouraging you to feel and express your thoughts and attune to your bodily responses.
Affirming your permission to have pleasure and learning to ask for what you want.
I work with Betty Martin's simple but profound consent model to help you to learn to listen to your personal 'Yes' and 'No'. And learn how to communicate your yes's and no's clearly, enthusiastically and empathetically, and adapt them to different contexts appropriately.
Better solo pleasure leads to better partner pleasure
We don't know what we don't know. I'll support and help guide you with your intentions of sexual learning and practices. We can't expect someone else to always please us, or know what really pleases us, if we don't know ourselves. The more we learn about our own bodies, the better we can communicate our desires with those we choose, with greater understanding and a broader sensory spectrum. This can come in the form of learning, observing and practicing where and how you find pleasure in your body.
All questions welcome
I look forward to supporting you on your personal pleasure journey. Please explore my various services on offer. I have both in-person and online options, and we can work together hands off, or heavily hands on. Private events available on request.
If you have any questions about my events, workshops, massages or if you have a personal enquiry, please feel welcome to email me directly. All enquiries will be treated with full discretion.
Jessica Parker x
What people seek and why some people choose to work with me:
- My unique blend of being an experienced hands on bodyworker, and creating sensual events the guide people to explore their desires in safe, beautiful environments
- to talk to a neutral person about sex and their body in general
- ask questions and advice in a non judgemental environment, eg dating lives, sex lives
- they feel they didn't get adequate sex education
- to learn techniques and skills – a sense of 'there must be more to know'
- to explore and enhance pleasure
- learn self pleasure techniques
- learn to give yourself permission to have pleasure
- to become more present and connected with sensations through breath, sound, movement and touch
- learn to recognise and communicate to partners about sex and their desires
- learning to feel what you're feeling rather than thinking what you're feeling 'being in your head'
- experience more ejaculation choice and wider range of orgasm sensations
- reconnect with your body post surgery, operations, childbirth, trauma
- lack or change in confidence, performance anxiety, fear around sex
- sensation and pleasure mapping
- scar tissue remediation with organic castor oil
